Thin Places
by Maddie DePuy
Have you ever looked for home in all the wrong places?
Have you ever tried to trace the edge of dwelling on contours in hotel sheets
or glide on the glint of luxury amenities and a premium view?
Have you tried the ointment of a plane ticket
the medicine of destination
or the dose of a dream home?
The promise of a perfect corner apartment
or the rush of somewhere warm in February?
Have you thirsted for a resting place?
Have you looked for it behind a door that got slammed
inside eyes that eventually glanced away
in between hands that could not hold yours
could not hold out for home?
Have you hoped for belonging
between the cracks of your iPhone
in the crevasses of a digital ravine
only to find yourself stuck between a rock
and a place too soft to be the foundation for anything?
Have you found the familiar places stale
and the new places prone to quakes and waves?
Here is a secret:
almost
everything
falters.
So what do you do
when the place you thought you could always go to
is ruthless and yellow and vacant?
Be the definition of fidelity.
Write your manifesto on anti-transience.
Where homelessness persists, dwell.
Be the poster child for authenticity
and realize belonging
is not something
you can create for yourself.
It’s simply
something you receive.
Resist the urge of loneliness
to be your eternal echo.
And if you write your manifesto
and stand your ground
and war, breathless for a new thing
against all you cannot control
determined for the antiquity of loneliness
to stay ancient
and you find yourself stretched thin as sky:
don’t give up.
When everything rages
remember
Home is far more
quiet than you expect
belonging is
relentless
kind
and available.
Photographs by Paolo Hugo